Have you ever wonder what promises are?

Why can someone break a promise as if the promise was never made?

Some said, 'promises are meant to be broken'

I will say, then don't ever make one. It's stupid to make a promise and end up breaking them just because you yourself can't even keep to what you say. And by saying it and not doing it is way worse than just not doing it.

Yes, basically everyone hates empty promises and everyone makes empty promises before. But too many empty promises isn't consider a mistake, it's consider as a choice because you know you can actually break it anytime thus promising isn't a big deal afterall. But have you ever wonder how it feels like when you're the one looking forward to that promise and someone just break it like 'oh it's nothing but a promise' ?! If you're someone with no feelings/heartless/no sense of guilt, then I am totally speechless. And most of the time, the person you make empty promises to is the one you claim you love.....

How did you even manage to do so?

Too much disappointment isn't healthy for a relationship. It's not about just disappointment, it's about how someone will feel inside. How would you feel if it was you? Happy? I doubt so.

Well, not just promises...

A healthy relationship is when both parties are willing to do anything just for each other. Not just one-sided. You can never say you love someone if all you do is take what he/she gives and just take it for granted. It's never this way. Why do you see old couples still holding hands walking on the street and still look so deeply in love with each other? It's just because they give and take at the same time. Arguments occur, but never ever throw vulgarities at each other because that will cause a very deep scar in them. Don't ever bring up break-ups if you don't mean it. Don't ever start having physical movements during an argument. And most important, don't ever leave him/her crying. Because a silent hug can actually heal everything even if there's tears but not after the tears dry up. The scar will then be too deep after a period of time for a silent hug to heal.

Yes, many of us have pride/high ego. But do you rather lose someone you love to your ego or leave down your ego for once and see how beautiful things can get? By loving someone, nothing actually matters more than the person. Not even your pride or your ego. Stop being so egoistic and start cherishing the one that really cares for you.

Because if you don't cherish what you have, God's gonna take it away and you'll never get it back again.

Ask yourself, if you're so tired of something, will you still hold on? It's a yes for some and a no for most. But have you ever wonder why did your partner chose to hold on to you no matter how deeply you hurt him/her? And that's love. No one can love you like the way he/she did, no one can ever do the same. Will someone ever kiss you the way he/she does? Or perhaps try to make you smile the same way he/she always do?

A MAJOR FUCKING NO.

Yes people can try to act it out, but you will know whether it's real or not inside you.

To married couples, have you wonder why your partner chose to get married with you when MARRIAGE IS A BIG THING? It's not something you can do for 3 days and decide to end it afterwards.

Hello? It's something you actually think about for some time before you even decide to say 'I do'.

Then why are you still blinded by the bad things and not looking at the good things?! Seriously, if you find that your relationship isn't working out the way it's suppose to then before you start blaming on your partner why not take some time and think if you were the one at fault too.

Nothing is one-sided. It takes two hands to clap, and if you are a revengeful person, I'm sorry to say that if all you think was taking revenge on your partner you don't love him/her at all regardless what kind of horoscope you are or what character you are or whatsoever.

Because you can be who you want to be, you're not born to be just like this.

You can always change for the better if you're willing to try.

Don't ever lose someone because of words that you said when you're angry, decisions you make when you're angry/upset.

Don't make promises when you're happy and then break it, SERIOUSLY THIS IS A MAJOR TURNOFF.

Don't force him/her to do something they don't like to do.

So for those who're in a marriage, BE A HAPPY WIFE.

Yes nagging do occurs more when you feel that you have more responsibilities on your husband, but please control.

And reasons for not being able to stop nagging is because your partner ain't 'auto'. I know you get what I mean. And once again, see??!?!?!?!?! It takes two fucking hands to clap.

Find something to get busy about, or just start finding something you're interested in doing to clear your mind. Or just simply blog. You can always blog about your everyday life.

For preggies, you can just do what's listed or perhaps you have more interesting things to do.

DO SHARE SOME TIPS WITH ME ON HOW YOU ACTUALLY GET RID OF THE BORING DAYS AT HOME DURING PREGNANCY PLEASE ~

After pregnancy, I suppose less arguments will take place because both parties have no time to actually focus on one another and most of the time they spent will be on their kid instead. Well and especially after working the whole damn day you won't even have strength to pick up a fight. Yep so just get a hobby, and start working on it. And after pregnancy period, you can just get busy with work and stop having negative thoughts.

Just some thoughts I have.

and one day if you ever came across reading this,

you'll know how much you mean to me.

How important you are and why I never once chose to leave you.

I no longer know if what I do is actually right.

I no longer know if there's still love between us.

I no longer know...

不要因为习惯而在一起，不要把感情当成爱情。

你可以选着离开，可是请你不要伤害她，因为你比谁都还要清楚她爱你有多深。

我好想念我们开心的日子，好想念你说你想我的时候，好想念你紧紧的抱着我说你爱我的时候。好想念你第一次为我搽眼泪的时候。可是这些毒已经不在了。。